A new, helpful thing
This post explains how to use the new “representing” function on this website
You can get the password using the contact form.
Good things are simple. The simple thing at the heart of constellation work is “representing.” This is where you choose someone to speak for and hold some part of a problem you’re facing. It could be a person or something else, like an emotion or event.
We discovered that representing can be done on its own, without a full, formal constellation. It gives insight and nourishment when you are up against something painful. It’s a kind of emotional and social first aid (and God knows there’s an urgent need for that).
If you’ve seen constellations, you know what it looks like when someone represents. They simply say, “I am representing Anna,” or “Anna’s mother,” or “the burden Anna is carrying.” They pay attention to their body and notice what comes up. (The people who are representing are all facilitators who have trained with me.) It’s low drama but also astonishing. No one really understands why it works so well, but it does.
Being represented is a clean, quick way to feel less hellish and stuck. It’s soothing and not that weird (okay, it’s a little weird if you’re not used to it, but it makes sense when you see it). My family, friends, students, and colleagues use it regularly.
If you want to try it, email me to get the password for the Representing page on this site. The password allows you to book a half-hour session, and you get a confirmation email with instructions. When the time comes, you tell the representative what you want to work on and they get to work.
Maybe you’ll find it’s just an odd, interesting experience. More likely, you will feel relief and see things differently. Sometimes, significant change follows. I can’t promise what will happen because it’s a mysterious process, but I think you will like it.
Email using the contact form on the booking page:
to get the password to use the Representing part of the site.
if you have any glitches that interfere with your session. Glitches could happen because this is brand new and life sometimes goes that way. If it does, we’ll give you a code for a free session.
to give feedback if you want to! I’d really like to hear how it goes.